DIY Tales – Arranged marriages is not as bad as people make it out to be.

“Love, is difficult to put in words actually. I guess it’s where you feel that this person is the best for you to the exclusion of everybody else. I’m not much of a romantic so when I asked her out, I picked up the phone and asked her directly. As in, I just asked her if she was interested in me. My advice to everyone would be that always say yes to whatever your wife says. Don’t argue, just be quiet. Let her calm down. If she is already angry then you have probably done something wrong.

About arranged marriages, it is not as bad as people make it out to be. I mean if both people are consenting adults then there is no problem. ”


DIY Tales – Only a few things matter in life and you should focus on that.

“I used to think that everything out there matters so much, like people around you, things you do and things you don’t do. But I was in a very bad situation. Few months ago my sister passed away. And I realized that all these things that I’ve being doing to make every one else like me or to be friends with everybody wasn’t important. Only a few things matter in life and you should focus on that. Nothing else matters.”


10 things that make a DIY arranged marriage cool


The times they are a changing! Gone are the days when parents would advise their children to marry only within the community or choose someone from the ‘right’ profession. The modern day parent wishes for an understanding partner for their child, someone who mingles with the family and they appreciate it a lot more when their children are more involved in the partner hunt. And that brings us to DIY arranged marriages. We have a long list of reasons in favor of this concept.

More than statistics

Height, weight, complexion, caste, religion, salary, though important, come much after the person, their personality and characteristics. So at Wedeterna we’ve created innovative profile features that bring out personality and character traits, not just vital statistics. These profiles are self-created, which means you get to speak your mind and share your thoughts on everything from life to movies and scan through profiles of other like minded singles. Making it easier for people to interact, share and connect.

More of you

Since DIY is all about you, we’ve tailored our profile pages to give you easy access to different aspects of one’s personality: social, candid, photo collages and even partner preferences. So whatever be the specification you have in mind for your perfect partner, you’ll find it on Wedeterna.

Parents will love DIY

In today’s world where there’s so much exposure and people are way more liberal than before, it’s unrealistic to expect parents to know the kind of person you would like to marry. Don’t get us wrong, parents need to be involved in the process but they would definitely be happier if you could choose someone you like, yourself. Why leave all the hard work to them?

Parent created profiles Vs Self-created profiles

Most matrimonial websites cater to parents and therefore stick to factual information. A DIY matrimonial network changes the trend. Since Wedeterna is all DIY, the profiles have to be self-created which means, one can find more than statistics, one can actually get a glimpse into the person. Making it easier to get to know the person and like him/her for qualities over quantities.

Skip the awkward arranged marriage situation

You can skip the tea, the clothes, the relatives and dive straight into a conversation or read all that you want to about the person you like. And you can do this from the comfort of your desk without having a hundred eyes staring at you.

Your parents are still involved

Unlike a love marriage, here, you can still keep your parents involved in the search. On Wedeterna, we give you the option of getting it touch with parents first to keep the sanctity of a traditional arranged marriage intact.

Parents are involved in the end

The great thing about DIY is that you do everything from creating your profile, scanning profiles to choosing your partner yourself and involve parents and family at a stage where you choose to take it to the next level.

It’s the perfect combination of love and arranged marriage

A blend that helps you balance the two worlds without losing control. You can fall in love, involve the parents and keep everyone happy. DIY works beautifully well for those who want to find love on their own terms while keeping parents involved at the same time.

 There’s absolute freedom

You are under no obligation of match-makers, middle-men, family ties etc. You can take your time, get to know everything you need to know about a person before you take the next step.

There’s absolute security

We ensure that your personal details, email id and phone number are never shared and never made public. No one gets access to it, not even premium members! While anybody can send you a request for your contact details, only you decide who you want to get in touch with.

And we have created Wedeterna ,a new-age, personalised and fresh approach to arranged marriages. DIY — DO IT Yourself  Indian matrimonial website with most eligible singles.


DIY Tales – After my first attempt for SSB I’ve a changed a lot.

“I’ve been trying for SSB. This year was my tenth attempt. I just came for the exam and also went to see her. I didn’t qualify for the exam. The last two years have been the most important years of my life. I used to be notorious, very irresponsible and immature. But after my first attempt for SSB I’ve a changed a lot. My girl friend likes the army because her father was in the army.

I’m in a relationship for 3 years. I proposed to her using my friend’s phone. She was pissed off. But I never gave up. I kept trying to woo her for 15 days.”


Ever Heard About Self Arranged Marriages? Now You Will !

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Wedding ceremonies and rituals may not have changed over the years, but the process of looking for love has. The traditional arranged marriage, where the elders had complete freedom to choose a life partner for their child is gently fading into history. Today’s parents know they want their child to find love and understanding above all else and are happy to help them choose their own match, even if that match is from another ethnicity.


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