it’s the kind of movie you can see twice – first for the questions, the second time for the answers
Nowadays the meaning of love has changed for me. I believe trust is very important. I’m in a relationship. The best thing about him is that he always supports me. Actually it doesn’t take even a fraction of a second to misunderstand somebody. But if you really trust someone, then you can actually try to understand his/her problem. So support brings everything. That gives you the strength to fight on through tough times. It’s not necessary that we have to be together or have to see each other all the time, because I’m in a long distance relationship where trust is necessary.
“To maintain a certain level of spirituality in this world, you should have a personal conviction and personal understanding. The society which you live in influences so much.”
“Communication is the key for a stable marriage. You have to make time to communicate and you have to take the effort to
communicate. Better than bottling it up and being passive aggressive, is to communicate.”
“I think the sweetest moments are when you do these nonsensical and nobrainer things together. Like when you go shopping or the kind of simple choices which you make together it really helps in bonding. We love to cook together and bake together. Every once in a while when I come back from Bangalore to Chennai, I usually reach there at 5am, he would wake up and come all the way to see me and get me breakfast. That’s really sweet of him.”
I’ve been doing my own real estate business for the past three years. I do nature camping for children. I take kids to explore wildlife and do camping and trekking. I’m an astrologer, my family is into it for generations. I see hands. Last time I happened to see a guy’s hand, I told him about most incidents from his past and he agreed that they had occurred. I told him that his mom and dad were separated. And he was asking me if his mom and dad will ever get back together. Later I realized the kind of mistakes people make, if they don’t have an understanding of their partner what’s the point of getting married.
” I grew up in a very comfortable and family oriented home. My parents loved their kids, they love being with their kids. Even today I talk to my parents five times a day. People don’t get that. And every time my dad calls I talk to him for an hour. I’m that close to my parents. When I moved to Bangalore, I wanted to leave within a year. Eventually I realized that life is such that someday my parents won’t be there. There is a family you are born in and there is a family you find for yourself. Someday even I have to start a family. So then I started to open up my thinking and suddenly I started appreciating the things that were in Bangalore and my life changed forever! ”
We’ve been married for 6 years and we met online. We have a basic level of understanding with each other. It might not be a quality but we are willing to give each other space. We are not a couple that has to do everything together, people should do what they want to do. As far as online matrimonial sites are concerned, if you create your own profile and go through it yourself, it works. If someone else is doing it for you then it doesn’t really work.
“When I first traveled to India alone it was my first visit, 3 years ago. I always wanted to come to India and I’d been quite interested in spiritualism and all that kind of stuff, and India always appealed to me so I signed up to fund an organization. I remember my first time, even on the plane I was talking to Indian people and I was so excited. When I got here I went straight to Jaipur. I loved it so much, traveling alone is a good thing to do and you get to meet so many people.”