DIY MATRIMONIAL NETWORK

DIY Tales – The meaning of love has changed for me.

Nowadays the meaning of love has changed for me. I believe trust is very important. I’m in a relationship. The best thing about him is that he always supports me. Actually it doesn’t take even a fraction of a second to misunderstand somebody. But if you really trust someone, then you can actually try to understand his/her problem. So support brings everything. That gives you the strength to fight on through tough times. It’s not necessary that we have to be together or have to see each other all the time, because I’m in a long distance relationship where trust is necessary. 11143214_966203150139809_9058762577470958005_o

DIY Tales – We love to cook and bake together.

“I think the sweetest moments are when you do these nonsensical and nobrainer things together. Like when you go shopping or the kind of simple choices which you make together it really helps in bonding. We love to cook together and bake together. Every once in a while when I come back from Bangalore to Chennai, I usually reach there at 5am, he would wake up and come all the way to see me and get me breakfast. That’s really sweet of him.”Tales-Anisha

DIY Tales – Love means freedom to me.

Love means freedom to me. The freedom to be myself. So far I have dated younger people but I have also dated older people. But prefer older people. Because i think older people are more interesting. At least in India the younger guys have a lots of growing up to do.  There is a friend of mine in Germany, he’s an artist. So for my birthday he drew a whole of cartoon strip of how we met, how we became friends and the thing we did together. He framed it to me and sent it to me. That’s one of the most thoughtful thing somebody has done for me.

Tale-Sridevi

DIY Tales – As far as online matrimonial sites are concerned, if you create your own profile and go through it yourself, it works.

We’ve been married for 6 years and we met online. We have a basic level of understanding with each other. It might not be a quality but we are willing to give each other space. We are not a couple that has to do everything together, people should do what they want to do. As far as online matrimonial sites are concerned, if you create your own profile and go through it yourself, it works. If someone else is doing it for you then it doesn’t really work.

Tale-Namratha

DIY Tales – We got into a relationship after 2 years of being friends.

“We got into a relationship after 2 years of being friends. It took us almost 2 years to realize that we were in a comfortable zone where we can just be together.”

“I think it should be independent in the sense we both have our own career to think about and the girl being dependent won’t allow me to focus on my career entirely, so a girl that is independent and thinks about her career as well is important. We don’t have to constantly be on the look out for each other. We can have a certain trust with each other and we know we are independent so we can think about each other and we can think about ourselves.”

Tales-K&S

DIY Tales – People take relationships for granted these days, the generation is like that.

People take relationships for granted these days, the generation is like that.

I am trying to control and change my possessive nature. Being over possessive also leads to silly fights and misunderstandings. I would suggest and advice people to be possessive in their own way but being over possessive will only ruin relationships.

One thing I really like about my partner is that he keeps updating me wherever he goes or whatever he does, be it at midnight or in the morning. Whether I am free or not he knows that I am there. He calls me up, he texts me, he keeps me occupied and that’s one thing I really like about him.

So far I have travelled to a lot of places working as a freelance model. I started 2 years ago and I’m still working on it. We don’t have that kind of publicity right now in India but hopefully we are working on it so that people know about us and transgendered are accepted.

Tales-Valentina