DIY MATRIMONIAL NETWORK

DIY Tales – We love to share every small things to each other.

“The first thing is that from the time we woke up and time till we go to bed, we like to share what we have done all day, it doesn’t matter how small the matter is. We love to share every small things to each other. He’s a cat person and I’m a Dog person, so I always ended up teasing him and it’s fun to have good friendly fights over silly things. The most nostalgic moment in my life just happened, she just booked a Royal Enfield for me. I am crazy fan of bullet and never really thought of buying one so soon. But she really got in to it and booked a bullet for me as my birthday gift.”

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DIY Tales – Love means freedom to me.

Love means freedom to me. The freedom to be myself. So far I have dated younger people but I have also dated older people. But prefer older people. Because i think older people are more interesting. At least in India the younger guys have a lots of growing up to do.  There is a friend of mine in Germany, he’s an artist. So for my birthday he drew a whole of cartoon strip of how we met, how we became friends and the thing we did together. He framed it to me and sent it to me. That’s one of the most thoughtful thing somebody has done for me.

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DIY Tales – When you feel like someone can rule you or take care of you then it’s the right person.

I’m a farmer. I have a retail outlet in Bangalore. I talked with my wife on yahoo chat 15 years ago. And I met her in 2004 then I got married in 2005. It’s 2015 now. I have two kids.
When you feel like someone can rule you or take care of you then it’s the right person. It’s always because we need someone and if you feel like someone can actually control you then it’s the right person. That’s how I feel.

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DIY Tales – If they don’t have an understanding of their partner what’s the point of getting married.

I’ve been doing my own real estate business for the past three years. I do nature camping for children. I take kids to explore wildlife and do camping and trekking. I’m an astrologer, my family is into it for generations. I see hands. Last time I happened to see a guy’s hand, I told him about most incidents from his past and he agreed that they had occurred. I told him that his mom and dad were separated. And he was asking me if his mom and dad will ever get back together. Later I realized the kind of mistakes people make, if they don’t have an understanding of their partner what’s the point of getting married.

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DIY Tales – I started appreciating the things that were in Bangalore and my life changed forever!

” I grew up in a very comfortable and family oriented home. My parents loved their kids, they love being with their kids. Even today I talk to my parents five times a day. People don’t get that. And every time my dad calls I talk to him for an hour. I’m that close to my parents. When I moved to Bangalore, I wanted to leave within a year. Eventually I realized that life is such that someday my parents won’t be there. There is a family you are born in and there is a family you find for yourself. Someday even I have to start a family. So then I started to open up my thinking and suddenly I started appreciating the things that were in Bangalore and my life changed forever! ”

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DIY Tales – I can’t forget the moment I finished my graduation and met my friends for the last time.

“I can’t forget the moment I finished my graduation and met my friends for the last time. It was a phase when I was growing into a man. The last few moments with my entire bunch of friends who had become family, one that I chose. The sense of being together for the last time. That was one thing that changed my life and the way I look at things. It gave me a new perspective. I was the lead vocalist in my band back in college. When I sing or compose music I feel like a different person. I feel like a much more relaxed, calm person.”

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DIY Tales – I have been with my wife for 23 years, it’s difficult to imagine my life without her.

“I have been with my wife for 23 years, it’s difficult to imagine my life without her. Evolution of love is so beautiful, it grows so much it is very difficult to quantify it or express in words. Five years ago we decided to come to India and it’s the most crazy country in the world. I come from Europe, its culture is mixed with economy. And then you have India, it’s a mix of spirituality, commerce and the blend in India is crazy. I was 26 when I came to India for the first time. And after a couple of months itself India caught on to me. We have traveled around in India so much. I have an uncle living in Tamil Nadu, so first time I came to Tamil Nadu I went to visit my uncle. We had no idea what to expect from India. Then we started traveling around. And we always discover something we never expect. That is the attraction of India” Tale-David

DIY Tales – As far as online matrimonial sites are concerned, if you create your own profile and go through it yourself, it works.

We’ve been married for 6 years and we met online. We have a basic level of understanding with each other. It might not be a quality but we are willing to give each other space. We are not a couple that has to do everything together, people should do what they want to do. As far as online matrimonial sites are concerned, if you create your own profile and go through it yourself, it works. If someone else is doing it for you then it doesn’t really work.

Tale-Namratha